I have found some great new sites, along with sites I have used previously for light show info.  But, while I have used some of these in the past I kept away from the subforums that dealt with RGB related stuff and controllers that I was not going to use as I had LOR (light-o-rama) controllers.

I have also found that these sites have regular users visiting and posting on more than one site, along with companies who advertise their pre-sales across most sites.  All are now added to my phone under tapatalk so that i can keep up with everything.

With no futher adieu…

Large site covering hardware/software/more:
http://doityourselfchristmas.com

Smaller site covering same stuff:
http://diychristmas.org/vb1/forum.php

Site dedicated to Falcon based setups (controllers and pi software):
http://falconchristmas.com/forum/index.php

xLights/nutcracker sequencing forum (one option of many):
http://nutcracker123.com/forum/